Says the original author: “I would be lying if I said it didn’t get to me.I thought it would be some fun thing, something where I would do it and worse case scenario say “lol I was a guy I trolled you lulz”, etc.

Man poses as woman on dating site to prove his point.

Man assumes women have it easy because they get a ton of attention.

This becomes a problem when we do things like go to the beach with friends, because most of the time, the women want to stay in the sand (and often don’t even wear a swimsuit, but long cover-ups, and don’t want to get tan) while the men are out playing in the water.

And of course, I’m in a bikini, ready to get tan, and dying to jump in the ocean with everyone else. And later, one of the girlfriends tells her boyfriend, who relays the information to my husband, that my behavior was inappropriate (yes, this happened, and yes, I’m still kind of bitter).

Seemingly nice dudes in quite esteemed careers asking to hook up in 24 hours and sending them naked pics of myself despite multiple times telling them that I didn’t want to.” As a male coach for smart, strong, successful women, I apologize on behalf of all men. But they really don’t get what it’s like to walk a mile in your shoes.

I wrote about this in Finding the One Online extensively – what it’s like to be a woman dating online and how men need to up their games to connect.

The little things that are “normal” for me (as an American) are not “normal” in Japan. A lot of my friends complain that it’s difficult to meet date-able (i.e. Yes, it is difficult, but no, it is not impossible.

If you’re interested on how to meet men in Japan, check out this post: How to Get a Japanese Boyfriend: Where to Meet Guys in Japan.

Man barely lasts two hours as a woman because the responses from his fellow men are so toxic.